Last Sunday, my husband, Paul, came home from his mother’s house with a bombshell: they had decided I should quit my job and become his mother’s maid instead.
I stared at him, stunned. “I’m sorry, what?”
He folded his arms. “Your job takes too much time. A woman’s value is in family. Plus, you’re always traveling, dressing up… we’re wondering if you’re cheating.”
Like a slap to the face.
“So instead, you can help Mom. She’ll even pay you if you do it right.”
I smirked. “You’re absolutely right. I’ll quit right away.”
The next morning, I arrived at my mother-in-law’s house, dressed sharply, ready to play my role. She greeted me with a condescending, “You’re late.”
I endured weeks of her endless demands, biting my tongue as I scrubbed and ironed. But I had my own plan. I gathered information—overdue bills, mounting debts, financial cracks in her perfect world. I sought legal advice, reached out to women’s shelters, quietly building my exit strategy.
Then, she found out.
Cornering me, she sneered, “You have no business meddling in nonsense like that.”
Anger boiled over. “Helping women isn’t nonsense. I’m done.”
“Get out!” she snapped.
“With pleasure.”
That night, I told Paul, “I’m leaving.”
He scoffed. “Where will you go?”
“Anywhere but here.”
I packed my bags. He watched, silent, helpless. Maybe he expected me to cave, but I wouldn’t. I wasn’t his mother’s maid. I wasn’t his possession.
I was free.
And I never looked back.